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Love – CS Lewis

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”

– CS Lewis

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My own – Sylvia Plath

“How much of my brain is willfully my own? How much is not a rubber stamp of what I have read and heard and lived?”

– Sylvia Plath

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Victim – Unknown

“If someone you know/are friends with/date is always a victim, it is only a matter of time before you will victimize them.”

– Unknown

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Consciousness – Carl Jung

“There’s no coming to consciousness without pain.”

– Carl Jung

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Loneliness – Carl Jung

“Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible.”

– Carl Jung

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Knowing your own darkness – Carl Jung

“Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.”

– Carl Jung

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Accomplices – Edward R. Murrow

“No one can terrorize a whole nation, unless we are all his accomplices.”
– Edward R. Murrow

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Good listeners – Helen Keller

“Everybody talks, nobody listens. Good listeners are as rare as white crows.”

– Helen Keller

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Possibility – Hellen Keller

“People are too prone to think that the actual is the limit of possibility. They believe that all that has been done is all that can be done.”

– Hellen Keller

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Succeed – Hellen Keller

“Many of us delude ourselves with the thought that if we could stand in the lot of our more fortunate neighbor, we could live better, happier and more useful lives… It is my experience that unless we can succeed in our present position, we could not succeed in any other.”

– Hellen Keller

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Joy – Hellen Keller

“Joy is the holy fire that keeps our purpose warm and our intelligence aglow.”

– Hellen Keller

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Emotions

Emotions people feel, but can’t explain:

Sonder: The realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own.
Opia: The ambiguous intensity of Looking someone in the eye, which can feel simultaneously invasive and vulnerable.
Monachopsis: The subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place.
Énouement: The bittersweetness of having arrived in the future, seeing how things turn out, but not being able to tell your past self.
Vellichor: The strange wistfulness of used bookshops.
Rubatosis: The unsettling awareness of your own heartbeat.
Kenopsia: The eerie, forlorn atmosphere of a place that is usually bustling with people but is now abandoned and quiet.
Mauerbauertraurigkeit: The inexplicable urge to push people away, even close friends who you really like.
Jouska: A hypothetical conversation that you compulsively play out in your head.
Chrysalism: The amniotic tranquility of being indoors during a thunderstorm.
Vemödalen: The frustration of photographic something amazing when thousands of identical photos already exist.
Anecdoche: A conversation in which everyone is talking, but nobody is listening
Ellipsism: A sadness that you’ll never be able to know how history will turn out.
Kuebiko: A state of exhaustion inspired by acts of senseless violence.
Lachesism: The desire to be struck by disaster – to survive a plane crash, or to lose everything in a fire.
Exulansis: The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it.
Adronitis: Frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone.
Rückkehrunruhe: The feeling of returning home after an immersive trip only to find it fading rapidly from your awareness.
Nodus Tollens: The realization that the plot of your life doesn’t make sense to you anymore.
Onism: The frustration of being stuck in just one body, that inhabits only one place at a time.
Liberosis: The desire to care less about things.
Altschmerz: Weariness with the same old issues that you’ve always had – the same boring flaws and anxieties that you’ve been gnawing on for years.
Occhiolism: The awareness of the smallness of your perspective.

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Remember – Douglas Coupland

“Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life’s cruelest irony.”

– Douglas Coupland

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Comfort – John Churton Collins

“If we knew each other’s secrets, what comfort we would find.”

– John Churton Collins

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Thrive – Maya Angelou

“My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style”

– Maya Angelou