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Friction in couples – Alain de Botton

“Friction in couples much reduced with an a priori recognition that no one is ever just ‘mean’ or Not Nice. They are hurt. For reasons.”

– Alain de Botton

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Mental health – Alain de Botton

“Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.”

– Alain de Botton

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Lose our tempers – Alain de Botton

“We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.”

– Alain de Botton

The difference between hope and despair – Alain de Botton ‏

“The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.”

– Alain de Botton ‏

Shyness – Alain de Botton

“Shyness/social awkwardness: an inability to be oneself stemming from a disbelief that other people might at heart be very much like us.”

– Alain de Botton

Nagging – Alain de Botton

“Nagging: a complaint that takes itself insufficiently seriously.”
– Alain de Botton

Normal – Alain de Botton

“The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.”
 
– Alain de Botton
 

Liberation – Alain de Botton

“It’s liberating to recognise that pessimism never protected anyone from disasters.”
 
– Alain de Botton